Dorothy M Neddermeyer

Indecisiveness - End It



Posted: Wednesday, March 17, 2010

by Dorothy M Neddermeyer
Genesis Consultants, Inc.

Decision-making may be difficult and you may feel incoherent when faced with choices. As you work to analyze your options, you might feel confused or puzzled by your inability to settle on the best option.

Ironically, "Every decision you make is a mistake," Edward Dahlberg, until you have the confidence to carry the decision to fruition. Life is a challenge. Life is full of challenging decisions, ambiguity, dilemmas, seemingly no-win situations and situations when we simply do not know what to do, but we are still obligated to do something, even if does not work as well as we hoped. Not making a decision-indecisiveness is making a decision.

Each decision left unmade will have a profoundly negative impact on your confidence, causing you to become more indecisive. In order to regain your ability to make a decision and abide by it, you need to begin by making minor choices-sometimes referred to as baby steps. Decisively choosing what to make for dinner, what to wear to work, or what route to take to work or any destination will restore your cache of self-confidence. These successful decisions will prove to you that you are capable of wisely and rationally choosing between options.

By making a series of minor decisions can help you end a history of indecisiveness when more important matters are concerned. The root of indecisiveness is a lack of confidence that causes you to second-guess yourself until you begin to believe that your judgment is unsound. After making small decisions you will see that your choices are met with favorable outcomes, your self-confidence will rebound. You will gain clarity of thought and your ability to rationally analyze situations so that you can determine the best option.

Gradually, you will discover that you can make decisions boldly and decisively. When you make minor decisions decisively you will know your decision-making abilities are on solid ground.

Dorothy M. Neddermeyer, PhD, has 33 years experience with healing, personal development and peak performance. She developed a unique process to Transform Your LIfe. This process teaches people how to consciously access their innate power to both heal illnesses and blockages and to create unlimited success. www.drdorothy.net

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